You are enough

Glasses c/o – Rayban via Pret A Voir, Necklace – Daniella Draper, Jumpsuit c/o – ASOS

Photography – The GY Photographer

I am enough – just as I am. 

I’ve had to say this to myself repeatedly over the last few
weeks. It’s so easy to get into that cycle of ‘if I just changed this, they’d
like me more’ but no more, I’m done!

I’ve been in a funk recently, second guessing myself and
becoming anxious over the smallest of things. As a person I consider myself
very loyal, if you are my friend I will do anything for you and (as selfish as
it may sound) I kind of expect the same back. However this sometimes isn’t the
case, there’s been a few times I’ve had to part ways with people, where the
friendship had become one-sided and I didn’t feel equally supported. At the
time yes, it’s horrible but I always ALWAYS feel better off for it. Just as
great friendships can do wonders, toxic friendships can really take a toil on
your overall happiness. So like a plaster sometimes it’s better to just get it
over with quickly. 

It’s all about gaining some perspective. It’s always sad when
this happens, when you truly connect with someone and then it just fizzles out.
Sometimes it can just a blip, with life/jobs/relationships/stress getting
in the way. That’s ok, it happens to us all at some point and as a friend you
have to be there to support them when they need it. It’s just a tricky one to
tackle, when is enough enough? 

This post isn’t going to give you that answer (sorrrrrryyyy)
It’s simply here for me to rant about something that can have such a big effect
on my mood and life in general, so I wanted to share it. The great thing is,
after different people coming in and out of your life, there will be a few, a
small few that will stick around. These are your best friends, the one’s you
share every moment with, the ones you don’t need to see all the time but you
know they are there. These are the important ones, so we shouldn’t worry about
about the rest. 

Although this blog mainly consists of fashion and styling
outfits together, it was originally a place where I came to to vent – so I
thought I use it for just that today…. I’ll be back posting pretty posts soon
I promise! But yes, that’s that, a post not meant to inspire or provoke, just a
post i needed to write. 

Kate x